People change (or not), relationships change (sometimes), hell...life changes (always).
So now the question is...how do I end this? The last time I was in the dating world, this wouldn't even be a problem. Texting didn't exist and email was just starting to become a way of communication. Yes, I realize how old that statement makes me sound...joy.
Maybe if I list the pros and cons of each choice, it'll help me make the decision. Here we go...
Con - This is easy...I don't have his email address.
Pro - Yeah, finding a pro on this one is hard. The con will explain why.
Con - Oh, that's right...we NEVER talk on the phone. And no, I'm not exaggerating. It would be an act of God if he actually answered the phone when I called. I'm starting to wonder if he is allergic to talking on the phone. Maybe it makes him break out in hives or his throat swells shut.
Pro - This is
our his preferred method of communication. You already know that he doesn't like to talk, so this is what I'm left with. Seems a little fitting to use this method for that reason.
Con - I would send the text and then be fidgeting until he responded, which could be hours. He's not a quick texter. And he actually admitted the other night that he "only reads the important parts of the texts" so how can I even be sure that he would read it? Of course, I wonder how you can determine if something is important or not without reading it. Maybe I missed that class in college. Hmph...
Pro - It's probably the most decent choice. Ugh...
Con - Lord only knows when I will actually see him again. Distance is a bit of an issue. Plus I'm really afraid that he will try to put on more lip service about how things will change. Fine...I'm a chicken...I admit it.
Pro - Short, sweet, and too the point.
Con - I would have to know where he lives.
Acting Like I Disappeared
(a.k.a. not responding to any future communication from him)
Pro - By far, the easiest way out.
Con - I might be a chicken, but I'm not a coward. I do have some ounce of human decency left in me.
What do you think? Advice, thoughts, opinions???
**Total side note...I think I've listened to this song about 10 times in a row. Seriously can't get enough of it and I can't wait for the new album to come out!!